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Ep 44: Do Not Constantly Push Down the Pain

Are you ignoring the pain of loss, pushing it down, telling yourself “I’m okay, I got this?”  This is a definite trend in the sisterhood.  We think we can just tie on our red cape and push forward.  But all that bottled up emotional pain is going to push right back in...

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Ep 43: Death after Divorce

We’ve talked about not comparing divorce to becoming widowed as these are two very different circumstances - not the same thing at all.  But what happens when after divorce, your ex passes away?  Is it rehashing the old feelings?  Why are you so devastated all over...

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Ep 41: Watch Out for Compounding Stresses as a Widow

Not only do we experience that huge shock of stress with the loss of our spouse, there are a tremendous number of secondary losses.  Be aware that these compound and can even affect your health. Today's episode discusses a famous stress units scale and helps you...

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Ep 40: Pushing Through Your Day

There were key insights and experiences in my first year as a widow that helped me strike out and rebuild a life for me.  This is why I wrote WIDOWED - to share that journey and some of what I discovered along the way that helped me.  Today I share a little taste of...

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Ep 39: Special Announcement

Today my book, WIDOWED, is live on Amazon.com in Kindle Format and I'm offering it for FREE for the next 3 days.  Details in this brief announcement.  Event registration:  http://lifefromtheauthorcastle.com  Book web page:  http://joannthelifecoach.com/widowed/

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Ep 38: Comparing Divorce to Widowhood

Have you had someone say to you, "I'm not widowed, but I'm divorced and  . . . ."  There is never any good to come from comparing. Death and Divorce are not the same things, so why are we comparing them?  In this episode, I also share about writing and the launch of...

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Ep 37: Having Faith as a Widow

Have you received signs that you are certain are from your spouse?  Sometimes all it takes is an awareness.  Sometimes, it is completely unmistakable!  Today I share more stories based on faith that those who have deceased are indeed still with us.  I also talk about...

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Ep 36: The Coaching Thought Model

It is not the events in our lives that shape us - it is what we believe about those events.  It is what we make it mean in our life.  How do we find our way out of the excruciating emotional pain of loss to move ahead in our life?  The coaching thought model that I...

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Ep 35: Widow Moments Update

 A “widow moment” is when something small triggers an avalanche of emotion - like all that sadness has piled up while you were still in shock over the death of your spouse.  So as the fog and layers of protection your brain has provided you starts to ease off and let...

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Are you called on to help other widows?

Joann’s latest book, The Widow Coach, not only teaches you how feel better, but how to help other widows move forward in widowhood.
· Become confident as a coach while being an amazing example of what is possible for other widows
· You will know how to assist others through their unique process of grief
· Honor the story that you shared with your spouse as you begin the next chapter of your life as a coach

©2018 Joann Filomena

©2018 Joann Filomena